Hi @Gill I do hope you’re doing okay. Hopefully you will hear from others who have been through this but also feel free to join this thread here and/or take a look through the previous posts -
Awaiting or considering or had a stem cell transplant, a place to share here - Going through treatment - Blood Cancer UK Forum
You might also find our booklet here useful to order or download - Blood stem cell and bone marrow transplants booklet | Blood Cancer UK Shop.
I’m sure there will be people on here who can share their experiences around this with you. Take care