Hi @Raffles1 welcome to the group.
Sorry to hear that you need a stem cell transplant, what cancer do you have out of interest? I haven’t heard of the drugs that you are taking, that is why I ask. I realise that different cancers have different treatments. Hubby is on the radar clinical trial.You have definitely come to the right place for advice/ guidance.
The guys on here guided me through a difficult time, as my hubby has just had a stem cell transplant, using his own stem cells, due to having myeloma. He was diagnosed in October 23 and had his transplant at the end of May 24, after various rounds of chemotherapy.
As soon as he started his chemotherapy we decided to be extra careful and we semi shielded. We didn’t want him to pick up anything that could slow down his treatment or make him more poorly. It may seem extreme but it was something that we could control.After he had all the tests and we got the go ahead, I started looking at his diet. I knew I would need to try and feed him up as he is a slim man. Most people loose weight after a transplant, so again we thought it’s something we could help with. I did feed him good meals and he put on a little, but he seems to be able to eat like a horse and not put any on!! Prior to diagnosis he didn’t have any symptoms, but once on chemo the tiredness kicked in. The steroids made him bounce off the walls, but he is glad he had no other side effects up to this point.He went to harvest ( remove) his cells in April and it took 3 whole days, other than uncomfortable he says this part of the process was ok. I know a lot of people manage to do it in one day. He only has great things to say about the service, the nhs. Then to assist the stem cells he was given GCSF ( granulocyte colony stimulating factor) injections into his tummy.These did cause him to have growing pains in his legs overnight, expected, and it does subside. A lot of people have no side effects, it’s all individual with meds.His cells were then taken away to be frozen, next step was to have melphalan, ( M) high dose chemo, then have his cells put back in to engraft the following day. This was about 4 weeks later.Still feeling fine at this stage.He was in hospital now and started to feel rubbish after about 5 days. He had a very dry mouth, but no sores, good tip is ice pops, lollies and ice cream. Try to have these after the M it really helps. Then he suffered bad fatigue, no energy at all, not even to sit up in bed. Its all expected as the M wipes out your white blood cells, the neutrophils that fight infection are compromised, as are the red cells that usually carry oxygen around the body. At this point your body is at an all time low. Hubby didnt want me visiting, he needed to concentrate on him and not worry about me, also he didn’t want me to see him struggling. He had no appetite, then started with nausea, no other side effects. All he was having was fluids, but not enough. This made him feel worse, the weight started to drop off. A dietitian was very helpful, I’m still in contact with her. She has given us food supplements in the form of shakes and fruit juices. Some people I know have very few symptoms at all, it just depends how you respond. On the whole hubby says the process is tough, but we were well advised as to what may happen, so it was easier to take. He then had an infection in his picc line which is a catheter used to take bloods and administer meds. It was picked up straight away and antibiotics sorted it out. Move to day 14 and he was sent home! We were told he would probably be in 3/4 weeks. So he did really well.His bloods just started to do so well. He still looked ill as he had then lost his hair and lost nearly 2 stone. It was my job to try and feed him up. They do say that recovering at home is much better for you, they were right. Although he still has to eat more and gain the weight, mentally he is back to his old self. We are still careful and not mixing much, just concentrating on food, exercise, fresh air and hospital check up appointments.
It is a difficult journey, but swapping 2/3 weeks of hardship for a better chance at life, hubby says yes pleeeeeese.
I hope I have given you an insight but not in a bad way. We definitely preferred to know what may happen. The human body is amazing and sometimes we have to think mind over matter, and as you said POSITIVITY is key here. I am usually a glass half empty & hubby is more positive. This whole cancer journey has shook me up, made me positive and made me fight for him. I hope you have someone in your corner, as you will have lots of support from us on here. Message me anytime if you have any questions. Good luck going forward, take care…x🥰