Hi @Matilda
So sorry I’m a bit late on replying as it’s peak allotment time, the courgettes are kicking off, and I’ve just left another charity I’ve worked for for over 12 years so had a lot of work to hand over!
Anyway. Regarding your Dad. I’m so sorry to hear of his diagnosis of Chronic myelomonocytic leukaemia (CMML) and completely understand your anxieties over his prognosis and on each occasion he has blood tests. I’m sure being medically trained yourself might make you go to worst case scenario each time?
However, here are my thoughts, having now had Chronic myelomonocytic leukaemia (CMML) - diagnosed formally 16 years ago and probably undiagnosed for around 5 years before that -looking at some symptoms I had.
- Take comfort that a Chronic leukaemia is usually less serious than an Acute one! Chronic can often mean the Leukaemia develops slowly over time.
- If he does not require any treatment, that is also A GOOD THING and not anything to worry about. I have never had any treatment and regard that as a huge benefit.
- Once you can find out his genetic mutations, there is a prognostic tool called Chronic myelomonocytic leukaemia (CMML)-Mol which you can feed in the results. You can Google this and if is very straightforward to use. HOWEVER, these tools are not set in stone and the results given are in median survival years. You probably have a better understanding of this from your professional point of view but it isn’t helpful in giving the full range of survival times! @Unclejack mentions a leaflet he found. I found one 15 years ago which gave median survival times of 12-18 months and yet, here I am, still living!
- If you want to know more about Chronic myelomonocytic leukaemia (CMML) please view the video on Myelodysplastic syndrome (MDS) UK patient support group website. It is very helpful and reassuring. I’ll send the link on my next message.
- I hope you can get your parents to engage with you more about this. Parents carry on wanting to protect their children -even when those children are adults!
- @Unclejack says I’ve been “fighting” this disease. Sorry but haven’t been doing that actually, and I have always rather strongly objected to all the battle analogies used in cancer talk!! I am merely “living with it”, trying to do the best I can - to eat as healthily as I can, exercise as well as I can and pursue an unstressed lifestyle. Whether that has made any difference at all I do not know. I’m just giving gratitude for having been around for a lot longer than expected from the leaflet I read!!
Best wishes to you and your Dad and Mum. Xxx