Hi @CarolCull I’m so sorry you’re going through what sounds like such a tough time. Please know we’re here for you on the support line if you want to talk things through, at any point. Our number is 0808 2080 888.
I’m sure there are people on this forum who have experienced similar things to what you’re going through right now who will hopefully share their experiences, but I just wanted to let you know we have an information booklet on bone marrow transplants, here which you can order for free - Blood stem cell and bone marrow transplants booklet | Blood Cancer UK Shop
We also have a thread on here where people have shared their personal experiences of a transplant - Awaiting or considering or had a stem cell transplant, a place to share here - Going through treatment - Blood Cancer UK Online Community Forum
We have everything crossed everything goes as well as it can for you.