Hi there
My mum is currently in hospital she went in o Friday and I’ve been with her everyday but I’ve had to take a step back and not visit as I have cold symptoms. I’m on day 3 and I hate it. I’m her primary carer and my sister “pops in” when she feels like it. But she’s been up there everyday and as much as I appreciate this she isn’t the greatest at communicating. We don’t tend to get on except when it comes to mum. But I had to call her last night as I’d not heard anything I called no answer then I txt again no answer. My auntie called me to check in see how I was and she’d just spoken with my sister my auntie told me what she’d been updated with from my sister like the nutritionist had been and given her something she liked and that they’d put her on a drip to make her more comfortable overnight and then my sister finally called me back and she said i quote “well I do have other people I need to talk to!” I’ve only just left! surely I should be the first call? Or am I being selfish? I didn’t mention I’d spoken to my auntie beforehand but all my sister said was well there’s no change I literally had to ask if anyone had seen her and she said oh yeah all the usual. I had to push to see who they were and what they had said. She knows I can’t go up as I have these symptoms of a cold so to be so snide with me was hurtful. Am I being selfish?