Hello there @Lou-ET, welcome to the forum, fellow Myeloproliferative neoplasms (Myeloproliferative neoplasms (MPN)) survivor. I’m so sorry to read of your ongoing diagnosis and uncertainties and can relate as I was a similar age when diagnosed with one of the Myeloproliferative neoplasms (Myeloproliferative neoplasms (MPN)) in 2023, namely Polycythaemia vera (Polycythaemia vera (PV)) in my case, although there was some talk of it possibly being Essential thrombocythemia (Essential thrombocythemia (ET)) initially.
You’re being so patient in awaiting your diagnosis and trying to understand where in the Myeloproliferative neoplasms (Myeloproliferative neoplasms (MPN)) family it might land, but yes isn’t it a scary time?! Like you, I’m a Brit outside the UK and so for me there’s been some situations of me not knowing the right questions to ask or what to expect from my healthcare after growing up with the familiarity and efficiency of the NHS.
Something that helps me is to write down all my queries and save them up for when I speak to my haematologist. He’s pretty great at responding to emails in the interim too, and perhaps yours might be as well? I also ask my phlebotomists when I see them as they have lots of great tips. The lovely Blood Cancer UK nurses are also an incredible font of knowledge and support so do consider reaching out to them too, you’ll often see them responding to us around the forum as Nurse @Fiona_BloodCancerUK has.
I’d say never sit alone with any worries, and certainly let your specialist know of any symptom changes and how you get on with hydroxyurea. I hope you were told about how hydroxyurea affects fertility. A good haematologist will want to tend to all your symptoms, emotional and physical, including stuff we might never imagine is connected, like mine testing me for sleep apnoea which can affect how much oxygen we have in our bloodstream.
While you await your overall diagnosis, perhaps you might like to read about Myeloproliferative neoplasms (Myeloproliferative neoplasms (MPN)) generally, and follow links to the more common (yet still very rare) ones like Polycythaemia vera (Polycythaemia vera (PV)) and Essential thrombocythemia (Essential thrombocythemia (ET)): What are myeloproliferative neoplasms (MPN)? | Blood Cancer UK
After I’d started hydroxyurea in 2023 I developed quite a tender spleen and my haematologist told me that with these Myeloproliferative neoplasms (Myeloproliferative neoplasms (MPN)) our bodies can overproduce so much blood that our spleens can start making it, and sometimes even our sternums. Our spleens can shrink back to normal and that should relieve the pain, which I understand usually indicates our treatments are helping to slow down the blood cell overproduction.
I’m sorry to read of those other diagnoses and their symptoms that you live with. After I’d got my head around having Polycythaemia vera (Polycythaemia vera (PV)) it dawned on me that it could have been affecting me for years, causing previous ailments and even the heart attack I survived. Perhaps the PCOS and GERD could be related to your overall blood disorder diagnosis? Might be worth investigating further. Try not to worry about any fibrosis, as far as I was told this sort of development of bone marrow scarring tends to be very slow, but again check this with your doctor.
Anyway, I’m sure that’s enough to be getting on with! I’m so glad you found the forum @Lou-ET, please keep us posted about your ongoing diagnosis and treatments. Do keep looking around the forum as you’ll find plenty of us surviving Myeloproliferative neoplasms (Myeloproliferative neoplasms (MPN)) here sharing our experiences.